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  • Are you on autopilot, just going through the motions of your day-to-day life? 

  •  Are you hesitant to pursue your passion — or even unsure of what your passion is?

  •  Do you feel isolated and rudderless in moving your life forward?

  •  Do you worry your best years are behind you?

  •  Do you fear that it’s too late to have what you really want in life?

  •  Have you wondered if you’ll ever figure out your purpose?

Are you ready to create more of the life that you truly want?

For busy women who want to get more out of their lives WITHOUT stressing like a maniac or feeling guilty.



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If you could...


  • Exploring what you genuinely love

  • Being surrounded by encouragement and support

  • Feeling vibrant and alive

  • Discovering your passions and taking the steps to pursue them

  • Realizing there’s no better time than now to live your dreams

  • Finding fabulous women to join you on your journey

  • Knowing your best years are yet to come

Join us now for inspiration, strategies and support from Debbie Phillips and Friends!

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Women On Fire is a community of women who inspire and support one another, personally and professionally, in leading their best lives.

We believe that to live your most authentic, fulfilled life, you need  the safety and the companionship of other women cheering you on.

We also believe that to have more of what you deeply desire in your life, you need inspiration and strategies.

That is where our membership program comes in.

By joining our monthly program, you will have exactly what you need to be your best. You will learn tried-and-true strategies for work and home, and you will take your place in a community of the most generous, caring women you could imagine.

ARE YOU READY TO LIVE THE LIFE YOU ALWAYS WANTED and stop being pushed around by your life?

A no nonsense step by step process with proven strategies, accountability, support and practical tools to help you achieve lasting change and redesign your life into the life YOU always wanted.

Right now, you’re desperate to get REAL results in your life, BUT...

You feel OVERWHELMED and are DESPERATE to simplify things.


You're SICK and TIRED of feeling like you aren't going ANYWHERE.


You're STRUGGLING to meet your goals and have no idea what your next move is or what direction to go.


You find yourself thinking…


“Am I really happy?”


“Will I ever have the life I want?”


“Is it even possible for me to reach my goals

without sacrificing my sanity in the process?”

Stop Letting Your Life Call The Shots...Take Back Your Life TODAY!

Building a new life can be hard WORK, and trying to figure everything out alone will leave you feeling DRAINED, DEPLETED, and DEPRESSED.

There’s an EASIER way to get more out of your life in a way that ACTUALLY feels good…

What does your DREAM LIFE look like?

We all have the power to transform the way we see ourselves and our world.  And, it begins with your answer to this question:

Whether you know the answer now or are yet to discover it, Women On Fire can help you translate your dream into reality.

Being a member allows you to access Women On Fire’s full array of benefits and exclusive programs. The materials are designed to help you navigate every aspect of your life– from relationships to career, from fears to first steps, from setbacks to success. We are here for you.

So what EXACTLY is THE TAKE BACK YOUR LIFE PROJECT and what is included?

TAKE BACK YOUR LIFE COURSE is a unique training program and support system based inside a an easy to use membership program that shows you step by step how to take back control of your life, reach those goals you have always wanted but may have been put on the back burner and build the life YOU always wanted.


You will be given practical tools, strategies, and techniques that have been tested and proven to help you maintain your goals. Achieving goals is important, but success in every area of your life must also be maintained. I will help you learn to do just that.

If you’re ready to invest in yourself, to reach for your dreams, to fuel your passion, to meet some fabulous women, and to become a Take Back Your Life Project member, then we invite you to say




Yes, Erin, I want to join The Take Back Your Life Project as an official member and.


Please bill my credit card for my membership of $29.95 per month. I understand that I may cancel at any time by contacting The Take Back Your Life Project Member Care.


Your monthly membership includes:



1. Erin’s monthly coaching lesson: Receive personal coaching tips and strategies to enjoy and help you to grow on your own timetable.

2. Weekly inspirational message from Erin, full of strategies to help you move forward on your journey to take back your life.

3. Live coaching video call with Erin: Each month, you are invited to a live video coaching call to interact with Erin and other members on a topic designed to help you transition and thrive through the ups and downs of life. This is an exclusive opportunity for members to receive Erin’s insights and personal coaching. It’s also your opportunity to connect with other members, share your dreams and goals, and give you the accountability and support you need to stay on track.

4. Exclusive access to the private Women on Fire Facebook group, which has been named by many of our current members as “the best part of the entire membership experience.”

5. Discounts on fees for other programs outside of the membership offered by Erin.

Here's What You'll Learn: 

  • How to honestly and objectively review the 6 key areas of your life to design a plan on how to break through the barriers that are holding you back in your life.

  • How to implement the tested and proven methods for gaining clarity on what your goals

  • How to increase your confidence.

  • How to utilize the 6 basic human needs to align yourself with intentional success.

  • Learn how to create an actionable, results-based plan for achieving success in your Life and your Business

  • How to identify and eliminate the pitfalls and dangers that keep you from achieving meaningful success – once and for all.

  • How to create positive and lasting change by identifying and leveraging your unique talents, skills, and abilities.

  • Learn why making YOU the #1 priority in your life MUST matter more than anything else when it comes to creating success without the guilt.

  • Learn how to handle negative people in your life to keep them from interfering or hindering your progress.

  • Why procrastination is so dangerous and how to stop doing it for good.

  • How FEAR is holding your dream life hostage and why it is so crucial to get past it (there are multiple fears here so you may only be struggling with one, or you may struggle with them all).

  • How to get rid of anxiety or stress (or at the very least bring it down to a manageable bare minimum).

  • and so much more...!


During this life-changing Empowerment experience, I will help you:

  • Work through powerful & proven strategies designed to give you all the tools and support you need in order to envision, design and live the life you really want(without having to stop in your tracks).

  • Tell the unapologetic truth about why you are where you are and why and HOW you can TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE!

  • Give you an honest assessment of what’s really happening right now in your life and how you can change it.  

PLUS! If you join now, you will receive these COMPLIMENTARY bonuses to get started right away!

Complimentary Strategy Session!

Successful people are not limited or held back by their life's story. They reinvent/change their story with a whole new perspective. They EMPOWER themselves by building a new foundation based on a purpose and focus driven system.


  • Here at Take Back Your Life, I want you to not only reach but also be fulfilling your highest potential and be living the life YOU want.

  • This program is designed with scientifically sound principles and techniques.  We have well researched and IMMEDIATELY practical guidelines for concentrating on your thoughts and emotions for reaching your goals.

  • With access to our growing supportive community, you will have 24/7 support and encouragement.

  • You can ask any question, post any concerns you may have in our exclusive Facebook group and get amazing feedback from our community.

  • I will be IN the group daily to respond to each question/concern our members have and to offer additional support, encouragement and coaching advice.

Who is The Take Back Your Life Project for?

  • Anyone who feels like they are not living the life they really want or were meant to live.

  • Anyone who struggles with anxiety and depression(Non-clinical as I am not a psychologist) because they feel like they have settled for a life rather than achieving a life of their dreams.

  • Anyone who feels stuck in a rut and want help taking their life to the next level.

  • Anyone who is tired of being pushed around or pushed aside in both their work and personal life.

  • Anyone who feels like they are just letting life happen to them rather than chasing their dreams.

  • Anyone who is tired of listening to others about how their goals/dreams are silly and want the tools and techniques to achieve them.

  • Anyone who feels like they do more to please others and their needs always seem to come last.

  • Anyone who can't seem to move past an old pain or loss.

  • Anyone who feels taken for granted and wants more out of their life.

  • Anyone who wants help taking back control of their life and moving it into a whole new direction.

  • Anyone who feels like they keep getting passed up in the workplace despite working really hard and being capable.

  • Anyone who wants to take their life to the next level, even if some level of success has been achieved but you feel stuck or can't seem to gain momentum.


  • You are NOT alone. I have been where you are and I can help you move your life in the direction YOU want it to go or help you push past what is keeping you from living out your dream life. NO this is not bullshit! You CAN live your dream life if you DECIDE to.


Listen, I KNOW a lot of online coaches are yelling in your face about EMPOWERMENT but how many of them have actually struggled with living 'their life their way'?

Well...I HAVE!

I have walked in your shoes and I can show you first hand how this process worked for me.

Have you ever asked yourself what is it that you REALLY want from YOUR life? 


1. What’s the difference between being a part of Women on Fire and being a Women on Fire member?

The benefit of being an official member and belonging to the membership program is that you get to experience all of the best that is Women on Fire. You will be part of everything that we offer: you’ll receive our latest celebrity/guest-expert interview in a monthly membership packet; participate in a live,monthly coaching call with Debbie; receive discounts to our events; and much, much more.

Being a member also helps you to further connect with our amazing community and provides you with even more tools to help you live your best life.

2. How much is membership and how is it paid?

Membership, which costs $1 a day, is paid monthly. We know how busy you are, and we’ve set up a convenient payment system so you don’t even have to think about it. If you ever need to cancel your membership, we make that simple too. And you are always welcome to re-join!

3. What kinds of topics can I expect to see covered?

We cover topics that relate to every aspect of your life, helping you to be your best and most successful. Here’s a sample of topics covered in the past: Relationships, Navigating Your Transitions, Friendship, Health, Following Your Dreams, How to Live an Extraordinary Life, Financial Well-Being, Grief… and the list goes on.

Each month we bring you materials that will help to inspire and move you toward your dreams and goals.

4. What if I know of an amazing woman who would be great to interview?

We would love to meet her! Please send an email with any recommendations to Debbie’s assistant, Daren Stinson, Daren(at)womenonfire(dot)com.

5. Who can I talk to if I have more questions about membership?

Please contact our Director of Member Care Dianne Phillips at Dianne(at)womenonfire(dot)com.

6. Is there a deadline to sign up for membership?

The only restriction is that you must sign up on or before the 26th of any month in order to receive the next month’s membership package.

7. Can I purchase past interviews that I may have missed?

We are in the process of setting up this service. Please stay tuned for more details.

8. What events do I have access to as a Women on Fire member?

You are always welcome to attend a tea, and as a Women on Fire member you are entitled to discounts on admission for our annual retreat, and to the strategic planning workshop called Vision Day® (led by either Debbie Phillips or Rob Berkley). As a member, you also have the opportunity to attend our members’ annual trip to Paris. Please refer to the events section of this website for more information.

9. How do I invite my friends to become members?

Simply share our website and invite your friends to sign up for the free weekly SPARK newsletter! We also suggest having them connect with Women on Fire through Facebook, YouTube and Pinterest. You will find all of our social media platforms on the homepage of this site.

In addition, joining the membership program is an amazing opportunity for friends to stay connected. Plus, it gives you the chance to meet new friends and to receive the inspiration and support to live your dreams!

Is The Take Back Your Life Project Right For Me?

Look, I know how important your dreams are to you, which is why we also know how crucial it is to find the right program to help you achieve them.


We want to help make that decision easy for you.

Do you struggle with any of these:

  • Are you passed up for well-deserved promotions?
  • Are you not given bigger opportunities at work that would enable career growth?
  • Do people take advantage of you?
  • Are you often taken for granted?
  • Do people make fun of or laugh at your goals/dreams?
  • Do you have relationships that leave you feeling drained, fake, unfulfilled or distant?
  • Do you feel stuck or pushed around?
  • Do you feel like you have settled for your life the way it is NOW?
  • Do you have negative people in your life that interfere, inject and influence your life?
  • Do you have low self-confidence?
  • Do you feel like your life is passing you by?
  • Do you have trouble tuning out the negative in your life, including negative SELF TALK?
  • Do your kids not listen to you?
  • Do you have family members/partners that treat you badly?
  • Do you lack communication skills?
  • Do you feel like people don't respect you?
  • Do you find yourself, or do others see you, seeing things negatively?
  • Are you unable to move through traumatic things or pain?
  • Do you often have pity parties?
  • Do you hold grudges?
  • Do you procrastinate often?
  • Are you held back in life by irrational fear?
  • Are you filled with resentment or anger?
  • Are you often stressed or anxious?
  • Are you unable to say what you really want or meant to say?
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If you answered "yes" to any of those, you are not alone. Not long ago I would have said yes to most of those things.



  • Someone who is not willing to contribute to their own growth.

  • Someone who is looking for a "get fixed quick" program. That is right up there with get rich quick. You get the idea.

  • Someone who is not serious about wanting change in their life.

  • Someone who is not committed to the journey of taking back control of their life.

  • Someone who is not willing to change. Growth equals change, so if you are not willing to change, THE TAKE BACK YOUR LIFE PROJECT may not be for you.

  • Someone who is not willing to do the work. True and lasting change requires effort so unless you are committed to taking action this may not be the course for you.


  • Identify your personal struggles with EMPOWERMENT and set up a plan specifically designed to give you the life YOU always wanted

  • Reduce stress by setting healthy boundaries.

  • Optimize areas of your life to help you reach your goals faster.

  • Design a CLEAR path to your life goals and understand what has been holding you back.

  • Build mutually-beneficial relationships and LEVERAGE each other's strengths for maximum impact in your private community.

  • Understand why self-pity is crippling you and how to stop it.

  • Use failure as a catapult towards your goals.

  • STOP living in fear of failure or rejection and letting fear hold you back.

  • Have healthy fulfilling relationships both personally and professionally.

  • Deal with negativity including negative self-talk.

  • How to stop clinging to the past (and why it is keeping you from achieving your goals).

  • Move past the fear of change (the biggest dream crusher of all).

  • Stop blaming others and accept responsibility and why that could be holding you back.

  • Get the best performance from yourself and others.

  • Communicate with more clarity, accuracy, and persuasiveness.

  • Set ambitious goals and achieve them on time.

  • Use good humor to make yourself more effective in the workplace.

  • Distinguish between constructive and destructive criticism.

  • Manage your priorities so that you are always doing the most important thing.

  • Inspire others to create a positive atmosphere around you.

  • Learn practical tools that you can use in real-life situations


MY PERSONAL STRUGGLE and how I learned to become empowered. Why I want to help others.

Anyone who knows me now probably thinks I have always been like this: Confident, willing to take risks, clear concise boundaries in my life, healthy relationships that are rewarding, successful and reciprocal.
The truth is, I was a mess. Most of my relationships were not only unhealthy but destructive. 
I completely lacked self-confidence let alone a plan of action for my life. I lived my life daily in reaction mode. 
I lacked boundaries in both my personal and professional life. 
I was lost!
On the outside, I may have seemed confident, but inside I felt empty, frustrated and disappointed in the direction of my life.
By the time I realized how far off in the ditch my life was, I was 31 years old. I had no real friends other than those who lived thousands of miles away. People used me.
I had no real solid accomplishments careerwise that I was excited about, even though I co-owned a successful business. I felt like I was a robot living someone else's life. Going through the motions. Reactionary rather than intentional.
Then a tragedy happened in my life that woke me up. Made me realize...if I wanted true happiness in every area of my life, not just my marriage which was always great (probably because I was 100% myself with him), I needed to make some changes.
And so I began the process of growing and building the life I have today.
It wasn't easy. Truth be told, I wanted to quit many times. To go back to the "easy way". But deep inside I knew that I couldn't keep living a lie. 
I wanted to chase my dreams!
I wanted more out of my life than just existing day to day.
So I started the process of setting boundaries, self-acceptance and learning how to understand why I did the things I did, so I could change my life and in turn the lives of the people in my life.
I had no program or coach to help me. I did have the support of my immediate family, but they didn't really know how to help me. I had to figure out who I was and what I WANTED out of  MY life.
Do you feel like YOU got lost somewhere along the line?
Do you have unrealized dreams?
Do you feel like your life was meant to be more or somehow different?

The Take Back Your Life Project is a membership program that inspires you, supports you and teaches you exactly how to stop letting your dreams and goals pass you by and to take back control of your life.


EVEN IF you have a no confidence


EVEN IF you don’t have a good support system


EVEN IF you've STRUGGLED to figure this out on your own


EVEN IF you've been told a million times before that your goals or dreams are stupid and will never work.

Let me ask you a question...
When was the last time you felt AT EASE with your life?

The steps I teach in  The Take Back Your Life Project help you not only gain back control of your life but also feel good about where you are going and we do all that WITHOUT sacrificing your sanity or adding more work to your already busy life.

If you are...

...TIRED of wishing and hoping and all the while watching your life pass you by


...SICK of sleepless nights spent worrying about where your future is headed


...FRUSTRATED with your relationships draining you dry


...STUMPED as to how to set healthy boundaries without the guilt or losing your temper


...EXHAUSTED from trying to fit the mold or not cause waves


...HESISTANT to make a change because everything else you've tried failed

...UNSURE what steps to take to create a life that is rewarding and fulfilling


...DISCOURAGED because you lack the support and encouragement to make a change in your  life


...and DESPERATE to be the one in control of every aspect of your life with confidence and EASE

...then The  TAKE BACK YOUR LIFE PROJECT is perfect for you.

...TIRED of wishing and hoping and all the while watching your life pass you by


...SICK of sleepless nights spent worrying about where your future is headed


...FRUSTRATED with your relationships draining you dry


...STUMPED as to how to set healthy boundaries without the guilt or losing your temper


...EXHAUSTED from trying to fit the mold or not cause waves


...HESISTANT to make a change because everything else you've tried failed

...UNSURE what steps to take to create a life that is rewarding and fulfilling


...DISCOURAGED because you lack the support and encouragement to make a change in your  life


...and DESPERATE to be the one in control of every aspect of your life with confidence and EASE

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