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What will your life look like in ten years if you
change, NOTHING?


Shifting patterns and habits that have lasted a lifetime requires modifying how you interpret the world around you. Not just the will power to say NO and stick to it. Change does not happen with the flip of a switch. It requires simultaneous understanding.

Every time you let self-doubt call the shots, every time you second guess yourself it reinforces the lies. The lies you have believed from a very young age. Every time you bite your tongue, allow negativity, or procrastinate it erodes your self-confidence. It creates an environment where self-trust is elusive.


Are You My Boundary is written with compassion, humor, and tough love. It is also grounded in decades of research. The 6 principles I have developed in this book will give you the tools and techniques you need to pursue relationships that enhance your life rather than adding stress. Those same tools will give you the skills to step into your potential and thrive amid the challenges that are currently holding you back.



This book will help you If you are tired of being stressed out, of feeling unappreciated or tired of making everyone else happy despite your own unhappiness. This book will help you if you are ready to make the necessary adjustments in your life needed to live up to your potential and create true enjoyment in your life. Rather than just reacting to what happens in your life.

It is my intention with this book to give you not only the tools you need to TAKE BACK YOUR LIFE and live up to your fullest potential. But I also want to take away the multitude of excuses you have been using by holding you accountable daily through the accompanying workbook and journal exercises.


Reduce Your Stress, Build Your Confidence and Change Your Life USING BOUNDARIES

As women, we often find that the biggest obstacle in the way of us reaching our full potential and living our best lives is ourselves. We may want healthy reciprocal relationships, but we rarely pursue and require them because we either lack the skills to build them or the belief that we are worthy of them. or both.


Despite our efforts to achieve success in every area of our lives, too often we can't silence that nagging negative voice inside our heads that brings us back to 'reality' by whispering, "Just who do you think you are? You are not smart enough, strong enough, brave enough. You are not ENOUGH."


Through stories of my own life experiences as well as many of my clients, combined with scientific applicable research Are You My Boundary explores not only why we find ourselves with boundary struggles, and may not even know it. It addresses the complex dynamics of self-sabotage that often keep us from practicing true self-care. Not just the momentary reward of a bottle of wine after days/weeks/or even months of pain.


In Are You My Boundary I will show you how to break the cycle of shame and self-doubt to achieve healthy reciprocal, rewarding relationships, both personal and professional, and build a life of intention. I will help you finally reach your full potential.


Are You My Boundary is perfect for individuals or small groups, It will encourage anyone who wants to stop holding themselves back and begin building and living their lives rather than simply reacting to it.


Read an excerpt here.

I'm Erin, and I'm passionate about boundaries.


Would you like to know why? Growing up, I developed bad habits. Habits like tolerating people who treated me like crap. Or like most teenagers and young adults, I said and did whatever I needed to fit in. Rather than feeling isolated and alone.


As I became an adult, in my early thirties, I began to realize the patterns and habits that may have once been behavior but were now part of my identity. And I did not want to be that person. .

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So I decided to change,


In the beginning, I had no clue how. But I was determined. So I researched, studied, and experimented to find the most effective strategies to change my behavior, my attitude, my reactions, and even my thoughts.

In Are You My Boundary I share everything I learned so you too can live a less stressful, more intentional, and joyful life.

"The truth is, you’ve designed your life to be just as it is, based on the stories you’ve told yourself."



In this challenging, thought-provoking, and inspiring new book, Erin exposes the lies and limiting beliefs that too often hold us back from living with intention and experiencing true joy. Lies that often hold us back from being more productive. Lies we’ve told ourselves since a very young age, and so often that they often become reminiscent of how we move through the world

With painful honesty, revealing humor, and applicable scenarios Erin unpacks and explains the stories that once left her feeling inadequate, and alone. She reveals the specific practical applicable strategies that helped her move past her fears and insecurities. In the process, she encourages, entertains, and holds you accountable, all to convince you to do whatever it takes to get to the root of who you truly are behind all the lies, stories, and limiting beliefs so you can be the confident, capable, truly happy woman you were meant to be.


With brutal truths, relatable humor, and revealing honesty, Are You My Boundary shows you how to live with intention and joy--and how to love yourself as you love others.

You need to STOP living a life controlled or motivated by what other people think and START living a life that removes the limitations!

Rachel Hollis has seen it too often: women not living into their full potential. They feel a tugging on their hearts for something more, but they’re afraid of embarrassment, of falling short of perfection, of not being enough.

Rachel sounds a wake-up call. She knows that many women have been taught to define themselves in light of other people—whether as wife, mother, daughter, or employee—instead of learning how to own who they are and what they want.

With a challenge to women everywhere to stop talking themselves out of their dreams, Hollis identifies the excuses to let go of, the behaviors to adopt, and the skills to acquire on the path to growth, confidence, and believing in yourself.



If you’re feeling a little anxious right now, you’re not alone. At times like this, it’s easy for fear to creep in and leave us feeling unsure of ourselves and afraid of the future.
Of course, it wasn’t my plan to release this book in the midst of a global pandemic. Far from it.
Yet if ever we needed to walk the path of self-trust over self-doubt, of faith over fear, it’s now.
I wrote this book during a period of enormous personal uncertainty and disruption. It’s why I know that the twelve principles I share – grounded in research yet written from my heart – will expand your bandwidth for life, emboldening you to pursue the aspirations that inspire you and meet the challenges ahead of you. And not just to meet them… to emerge out the other side stronger, wiser, and more connected to the power within you.
So if right now, you have to be braver than you want to be, this book is for you.
It’s for anyone who wants to live a more soul-satisfying life but too often doubts if they can.
Of course, I hope you’ll read it.
But more so, I hope it will embolden you to live with greater courage and discover how little reason you ever had to doubt yourself, to begin with.
We’re all walking our own hero’s journey.
May this book help you discover within yourself all you need for your journey ahead.
You’ve got this. We’ve got this! Let’s rise stronger, together.


Why You Must Buy This Book!

You’ve Got This! will help you unleash the champion within. Margie’s authenticity and wisdom leaps off every page.”

You’ve Got This! will help you unleash the champion within. Margie’s authenticity and wisdom leaps off every page.”

You’ve Got This! will help you unleash the champion within. Margie’s authenticity and wisdom leaps off every page.”

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